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Aug. 31st, 2004 11:32 pmSo I went to game tonight and had fun. I really like this group of people. I don't know the setting well, but it is fun. I am going to enjoy being around a group of people more like me than the last one. I liked the last ones, but I felt Old. When Some one says "It's the pass word from War Games..." and everone in the room goes "Joshua!" It feels like home. And we are going to go to 1984, a club in the city. I am pretty excited about that. I haven't been dancing in a long time. I am kind of excited really!
Well this past weekend was SF faire. It was a blast! Only Bill Watters could get it to be HOT in SF, even for a little while. I even got a little sun burnt! Heather was on TV showing how a noble woman gets dressed, I dressed the news guy and we had air time! Tom's knighting went well and then Perry did an awe inspiring appeal to the knights councel that made me cry! He was great. Needless to say he will be knighted at Folsom! Congradulations Perry! You finally came out of your shell!
Also I realized that one can not be angery for your friends if they don't chose to act on their own frustrations. A friend is moving out and his roomie's "bestfriend" read him the riot act via lj. The thing is the roomie wasn't ever this upset to his face. She told many people her frustrations and we all told her we understood, and she should go tell him, but she never did. So when the "best friend" goes off, it is just not okay. I know,my best friend and I had this discussion about an issue I was not dealing with and she said "You know I can't hate some one for you! If you aren't going to do something, I can't do it for you!" And it really hit a cord. Hence I went and did some thing. I set boundaries and burn bridges. I had to. It was either that or feel like s*** ever time I was in an area. If I didn't stand up for me, no one else would or should. So then this week it happeneed that some friends were upset about this guy not taking care of his people. But If the people don't say "Hey I am hunger, this is not okay for you to go and leave me here." then the friends can't be too mad at the guy. And knowing the guy he asked and was told"No I am okay." and so he took their word. The problem is, if it were me, I would have forced people to take care of them selves and not have left them alone no matter how competent they were. Just me I guess.
Well I am off to bed as I need to be up bright and early to go on home visits with my new families. I is fun to know that I am beginning fresh and I only have two other personalities to deal with at work verses 5-6 and all of them different and not working together. This time it is a unified center and we can get so much done this year! I am so excited!
Good night Folks!
Well this past weekend was SF faire. It was a blast! Only Bill Watters could get it to be HOT in SF, even for a little while. I even got a little sun burnt! Heather was on TV showing how a noble woman gets dressed, I dressed the news guy and we had air time! Tom's knighting went well and then Perry did an awe inspiring appeal to the knights councel that made me cry! He was great. Needless to say he will be knighted at Folsom! Congradulations Perry! You finally came out of your shell!
Also I realized that one can not be angery for your friends if they don't chose to act on their own frustrations. A friend is moving out and his roomie's "bestfriend" read him the riot act via lj. The thing is the roomie wasn't ever this upset to his face. She told many people her frustrations and we all told her we understood, and she should go tell him, but she never did. So when the "best friend" goes off, it is just not okay. I know,my best friend and I had this discussion about an issue I was not dealing with and she said "You know I can't hate some one for you! If you aren't going to do something, I can't do it for you!" And it really hit a cord. Hence I went and did some thing. I set boundaries and burn bridges. I had to. It was either that or feel like s*** ever time I was in an area. If I didn't stand up for me, no one else would or should. So then this week it happeneed that some friends were upset about this guy not taking care of his people. But If the people don't say "Hey I am hunger, this is not okay for you to go and leave me here." then the friends can't be too mad at the guy. And knowing the guy he asked and was told"No I am okay." and so he took their word. The problem is, if it were me, I would have forced people to take care of them selves and not have left them alone no matter how competent they were. Just me I guess.
Well I am off to bed as I need to be up bright and early to go on home visits with my new families. I is fun to know that I am beginning fresh and I only have two other personalities to deal with at work verses 5-6 and all of them different and not working together. This time it is a unified center and we can get so much done this year! I am so excited!
Good night Folks!
