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These are great ideas to make your relationship just that much more fab. Add this to your list of sharing with your SO,I know I will be!
1. Hold hands when doing lame stuff, like Grocery shopping, Banking and so forth.Pretend you are at Disneyland, or on Vacation with your sweetie while you pick up toilet paper.It makes a huge difference when running errands together.
2. If you are not stoked on your mate, start looking at what you are doing first. Most the time, part of the problem is something you are doing or not doing. Start there.
3.Give and Serve your partner, do stuff for the other. Life gets way busy sometimes, having one another's backs even if you can't spend a lot of time together at that moment, reinforces that you have your partner's back. Putting aside a plate of leftovers for the working late or even out with the boys/girls partner is a nice gesture.
4.When your partner is being lame, and it's not you, ask them why they are being lame. See whats going on.
5.If you are too tired to have sex or too busy, cuddle for as long as you can.
6.Try to share one meal a day, doesn't matter what the food is, but sit down together and eat.
7.Write notes, use pet names and smooshy stuff.
8.If you split up your housework, surprise the other by doing "their" chores, and yours.
9. Think in terms of how to make each other's lives easier, better, more awesome, more metal etc..When both of you are doing this for one another, its pretty amazing, but usually someone has to go first.
10. Make sure your partner gets some free time, preferably alone. Most people need a little time to themselves on occasion. Away from even you.
11. If your relationship is going sucky, no amount of blame will do any good. Not to mention you both let it get sucky so its a moot point. Skip that part. Just figure out what you both aren't getting and try to sort out how to give it to one another.
12.Make time for your partner, even if you are really busy, make some time for that important person, after all, they are supposedly important to you.
13.Kiss A LOT.
14. BE grateful, many times our partners do things for us and we just take it for granted. Take some time occasionally to reflect on all the things they do for you that if some random person in your life was doing, you would be blown away, now be that grateful for them.
Your turn, add some wisdom here :)
*EDIT*
Repost at will and collect wisdom as you go, that would be cool wouldn't it?
1. Hold hands when doing lame stuff, like Grocery shopping, Banking and so forth.Pretend you are at Disneyland, or on Vacation with your sweetie while you pick up toilet paper.It makes a huge difference when running errands together.
2. If you are not stoked on your mate, start looking at what you are doing first. Most the time, part of the problem is something you are doing or not doing. Start there.
3.Give and Serve your partner, do stuff for the other. Life gets way busy sometimes, having one another's backs even if you can't spend a lot of time together at that moment, reinforces that you have your partner's back. Putting aside a plate of leftovers for the working late or even out with the boys/girls partner is a nice gesture.
4.When your partner is being lame, and it's not you, ask them why they are being lame. See whats going on.
5.If you are too tired to have sex or too busy, cuddle for as long as you can.
6.Try to share one meal a day, doesn't matter what the food is, but sit down together and eat.
7.Write notes, use pet names and smooshy stuff.
8.If you split up your housework, surprise the other by doing "their" chores, and yours.
9. Think in terms of how to make each other's lives easier, better, more awesome, more metal etc..When both of you are doing this for one another, its pretty amazing, but usually someone has to go first.
10. Make sure your partner gets some free time, preferably alone. Most people need a little time to themselves on occasion. Away from even you.
11. If your relationship is going sucky, no amount of blame will do any good. Not to mention you both let it get sucky so its a moot point. Skip that part. Just figure out what you both aren't getting and try to sort out how to give it to one another.
12.Make time for your partner, even if you are really busy, make some time for that important person, after all, they are supposedly important to you.
13.Kiss A LOT.
14. BE grateful, many times our partners do things for us and we just take it for granted. Take some time occasionally to reflect on all the things they do for you that if some random person in your life was doing, you would be blown away, now be that grateful for them.
Your turn, add some wisdom here :)
*EDIT*
Repost at will and collect wisdom as you go, that would be cool wouldn't it?
