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Jan. 1st, 2018 08:45 pmSo I have not used this much. I have been using other social outlets and I realize I miss typing out my feelings and what -I- am going through but most of it is not drama filled so I try to keep it to myself.
I am doing well. I have a good job that I enjoy and which is encouraging me to expand and they are paying for me to get my HR certification. I got a raise on my last day in the office before Christmas. That is BIG. There is no bonus but no one got one of those and we didn't really do a holiday party as well too many work trips and then folks traveling in December made that planning harder. So we decided to do a lunch in January. Some folks were not thrilled but it worked the best.
Also I am officially closing my live journal which is so weird. I was on there for officially 16 years, but due to the other plate forms that arose, spent less and less time there. I realize that I need to use this place as a way to express myself more fully and stop keeping things bottled up. Let's hope I can do that.
I just celebrated 9 years married to Andrew and that is still mind blowing. We have had so many crazy things go through our lives and we have changed and grown over the years. We have expanded our definitions of married life and what we want out of it as people. We are definitely not our parents and we don't have kidlets. We have each other and we have our other metamours which has its ups and downs of course. But at the end of the day we have each other and that is kinda awesome.
Well that is it for today. I will try to do this once a week I think. It will be good to do a download of thoughts and give it more breath thant 280 characters.
I am doing well. I have a good job that I enjoy and which is encouraging me to expand and they are paying for me to get my HR certification. I got a raise on my last day in the office before Christmas. That is BIG. There is no bonus but no one got one of those and we didn't really do a holiday party as well too many work trips and then folks traveling in December made that planning harder. So we decided to do a lunch in January. Some folks were not thrilled but it worked the best.
Also I am officially closing my live journal which is so weird. I was on there for officially 16 years, but due to the other plate forms that arose, spent less and less time there. I realize that I need to use this place as a way to express myself more fully and stop keeping things bottled up. Let's hope I can do that.
I just celebrated 9 years married to Andrew and that is still mind blowing. We have had so many crazy things go through our lives and we have changed and grown over the years. We have expanded our definitions of married life and what we want out of it as people. We are definitely not our parents and we don't have kidlets. We have each other and we have our other metamours which has its ups and downs of course. But at the end of the day we have each other and that is kinda awesome.
Well that is it for today. I will try to do this once a week I think. It will be good to do a download of thoughts and give it more breath thant 280 characters.
