Just whining and scared....

[rosered32]

I guess I am whining... I don't really know how to handle relationship stuff. Everytime he says he's unhappy, I panic. I just hear how he has said I do something like one of our friends whom he can't stand and I just want to run away. I feel like I am not doing the right thing and may be I am just panicing but I just don't know what to do... I mean my last relationship ended badly and now I think I am just gun shy if you will. I really wonder if I should just go away and live alone with a dog as I am not a cat person. then I can just have dates and note hurt any one or be hurt. I know this is a cope out in general but at times it just feels like the thing to do... He of course knows what to do as he is always self analyising and such but I just can't seem to start on the path that will help. I read but as he says I don't talk to people about the real issues. I just don't know how to really. Everyone seems to have bigger issues than me and I always feel I am whining about my life if I start and also the people I have shared with have left or hurt me and then left. I just don't know... I will figure something out, I always do but I just don't know if I have the tools to open up as much as I should... How do you do it? I wish I knew....