Consider my ex-husband. *nod* And my last relationship, and the short-lived (but intensely felt, at least on my end) relationship before my daughter's father. I'm friends with all of them, and enjoy their company whenever we get to talk (though my last relationship its difficult because he's on the other side of the country most of the time).
The point I believe is if you weren't friends before,which I know you were, you generally aren't friends after. I have aquaintneces who "fell in Love" first and now they say they are friends,but really they aren't. It happens. I was just saying that friends first then lovers will still be friends after the relationship of lovers ends. But again I am friends with most of my exs as well expect one. The rest visit and we share pictures and such. It is a little odd when they say they have to approve the new ones since they have known me for so long and they don't always like my choices!(Yeah... don't ask me about my First meeting My Last.Ugh!) More soon ...
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Date: 2006-06-22 11:32 pm (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2006-06-23 04:27 am (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2006-06-23 09:33 am (UTC)From:Consider my ex-husband. *nod* And my last relationship, and the short-lived (but intensely felt, at least on my end) relationship before my daughter's father. I'm friends with all of them, and enjoy their company whenever we get to talk (though my last relationship its difficult because he's on the other side of the country most of the time).
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Date: 2006-06-24 03:30 pm (UTC)From:I have aquaintneces who "fell in Love" first and now they say they are friends,but really they aren't. It happens. I was just saying that friends first then lovers will still be friends after the relationship of lovers ends. But again I am friends with most of my exs as well expect one. The rest visit and we share pictures and such. It is a little odd when they say they have to approve the new ones since they have known me for so long and they don't always like my choices!(Yeah... don't ask me about my First meeting My Last.Ugh!) More soon ...